(Note: I think these next seven days are going to be a bit brutal, and the news and social media will not present our better angels. So for these next seven days, I’ll write posts about something I find beautiful or happy or warm. Just in case you need a brief respite from the election.)
In some ways, anyone who knew my grandmother would not immediately say she was a saint, not in the traditional “sweetness, goodness, and light” sort of way. She caught my grandfather’s eye while dancing on a table at the local tavern, or so the story goes. They married in 1925 and were married until, sixty-three years later, my grandfather died in his sleep in the bed they shared.
This is one of my favorite memories about Mary Hansler.
Every summer we would visit my grandparents in Washington State, and coming from New Jersey, and then Texas, that was a big deal. It was a big deal for them, too. We might spend a night at their home in Tacoma, but the real goal was to get to the Ranch, the property they bought in the early 1940’s outside Mt. Rainier National Park.
We’d get up to that mountain air and know we weren’t home. It smelled of fir trees and mint and we needed jackets to go outside; without television, the most constant sound was the creek babbling near by. Other family members might come up while we were there, and the siblings and cousins would take turn washing all those dishes by hand.
But the real winner of the whole deal was breakfast. My grandmother loved to fish, more than anything else in the whole world. She would get up before dawn, grab her pole and reel, and head to the creek. While she was gone, Grandpa would light the wood stove and start the percolator. Grandma would come home, clean the trout, make biscuit batter. If one of the kids was up, they’d be sent out to the raspberry patch to pick berries.
Then she’d dredge those rainbow trout in flour and lemon pepper and set the big cast iron pan on the stove, and put a slab of butter in it. Down went the trout, so fresh they’d curl up as they cooked. Biscuits went in the oven. Juice and milk and cream and sugar and homemade blackberry jelly went on the table.
And then we ate. We stuffed ourselves silly, to get ready for a day of moving rocks in the creek and hiking up Mt. Osborn and washing dishes by hand. Grandma sat at the head of the table, her little brown tea pot next to her, her eyes twinkling, her cheeks perpetually rosy. She could be sharp sometimes, but I think nothing gave her more joy than seeing her family, some of whom lived too far away, gathered at that table devouring the feast she made possible.
So on this All Saints day, I say a prayer of thanks for all my grandparents, whose love formed my parents and in turn me. And I say a prayer of thanks for rainbow trout, and raspberries and blackberries, and butter, and biscuits, and family.
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That brought a big smile to Uncle Dick’s face and mine too. Those were wonderful times with grandma as the hub of the life that spun around her. Thanks for those memories, Beth.
We have been so blessed, haven’t we? Love to you both.
Loved the story. One of my favorite summer memories is visiting my cousins in Missoula. My uncle would get up early and catch trout just like your grandmother. My aunt would then fry it up for me. I loved it. He did it every morning and then went to teach summer school at the University. Still on of my best memories. Thanks for making me think of this tonight. I’m sick of all the politics. Keep up the lovely inspiring posts.
Thank you Thank you Thank you for the wonderful much needed respite!!
On Tue, Nov 1, 2016 at 7:14 PM, Hold Fast to What Is Good… wrote:
> Beth Merrill Neel posted: “(Note: I think these next seven days are going > to be a bit brutal, and the news and social media will not present our > better angels. So for these next seven days, I’ll write posts about > something I find beautiful or happy or warm. Just in case you need ” >
This is, indeed, lovely and warm. Thank you.